People That Spitefully Use You

We can spend insane amounts of time trying to understand why people do what they do. Our minds try to make sense of an insane situation. Most people have a personality disorder. They are disordered.
Narcissism, codependency & double standards: Narcissists and codependent people might use others in order to calm down their insecurities and feel better about themselves. In order not to feel guilty or to experience shame those people usually try to convince themselves that some people deserve to be taken advantage of. These double standards helps those who take advantage of others feel better and face those who point fingers at them
 We can spend great amounts of time trying to understand why people do what they do. Normal minds will try to make sense of an insane situation to no avail. That’s why they are called behavior personality disorder. They are disordered and you must extricate and protect yourself from these destructive, human beings.
Here’s a new word for your vocabulary.
NO.
Nope, nix, nay, nil, nada
Say it like you mean it.
Say it to protect yourself.
Say it because you’re furious, disgusted, fed up, and insulted.
Say it because you refuse to let them ruin your life.
Because you’re bored with the games.
Because loneliness is better than abuse.
Because you believe in a future for yourself.
Because something greater than yourself has a better plan for you.
And if you don’t quite get it yet, say it anyway. Fake it till you make it. No means no. Close the door.
So another one can open. It will. And that’s a promise.
xoxo