How to tell if she's using you

Everything seems to be going smoothly with your girlfriend until you sense something is off. You don’t want to overthink it or else you end up sabotaging your relationship. Plus, as a man, you never overthink. However, a pattern begins to evolve and you can’t help but pay attention to all the signs going around. In particular, you start feeling like you’re being taken advantage of, especially financially and with your time.

There seems to be a lack of emotional investment from your partner and the relationship all become more trivial. The only thing on your mind at that moment is if it’s really worth it to continue dating your girlfriend.

Nobody likes to be taken advantage of. Both women and men experience this but differently. Men usually take advantage of women emotionally while women take advantage of men in an opportunistic way. With that being said, there are signs you need to look out for to tell if she’s using you, whether it’s for your money, company or your cool lifestyle. As said before, one of the main factors to distinguish this is if there’s a lack of emotional investment such as she doesn’t give you affection, or tells you sweet things that sound genuine. The day goes something like as soon as the two of you come home from your fun day out, she keeps herself at a distance until you offer her something else.

Below are some ways and can help determine if the relationship is still worth pursuing.
Not Introducing You To Close Friends and Family. Just like with guys, if she doesn’t bother to introduce you to her close friends or family, she’s probably just with you for the moment.

She Only Likes To Go Out and spend Your money

She is not into Your Friends or Family. Make excuses not to meet them

She Likes To Have Her Space Often.  If you are in a relationship with a girl who clings to you for a
few days and then is nowhere to be found for the next few days, she may just be using you.

She leaves You Out Of Her Life.  she doesn’t include you in much of her life events.

She Never Pays For Anything.  Even if the man enjoys paying for her, it doesn’t hurt for her to ask if she can take care of it. It shows she genuinely cares for you and is overall a well-rounded person.

She Doesn’t Care What You Have To Say. She changes the subject when you complain about having a bad day,

She Takes You As a Friend Only.  If you treat her as your girlfriend but she just wants to be your friend, take it as a red flag too.

She Is Very Dominating. It is never a good idea to be in a relationship if the other person dominates it completely. If she throws her weight around you, she believes she has already taken over your heart and knows you will do anything she asks